Want to fuel conflicts? Try using lots of Shame and Blame.
40 Days of Resolution at Home | Day 13: You Are Responsible for What You Think
40 Days of Resolution at Home | Day 12: Ask an Open-Ended Question
40 Days of Resolution at Home | Day 11: You Can Apologize Better
40 Days of Resolution at Home | Day 10: No More Good/Bad Binary
We've been taught to think of most things in terms of the binary: Right • Wrong, Wonderful • Despicable, Angelic • Devilish, Acceptable • Unacceptable. Oftentimes, our instinct is to choose a binary side -- calling something good or bad: 'beets are SO good!' or 'no way, I CAN'T STAND collared shirts.'





